<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post3752232077259234371..comments</id><updated>2010-10-17T06:31:19.827-04:00</updated><category term='weather'/><category term='civility'/><category term='children'/><category term='business'/><category term='attention'/><category term='MBTI'/><category term='Indianapolis'/><category term='strengthsfinder'/><category term='books'/><category term='psychometrics'/><category term='introversion'/><category term='politics'/><category term='culture'/><category term='holiday'/><category term='nature'/><category term='mental health'/><category term='Indiana'/><category term='spirituality'/><category term='intuition'/><category term='remembering'/><category term='creativity'/><category term='sustainability'/><category term='psychology'/><category term='economics'/><category term='travel'/><category term='personality'/><category term='noticing'/><category term='marketing'/><category term='happiness'/><category term='observed behavior'/><category term='health'/><category term='OCD'/><category term='writing'/><category term='learning'/><category term='work'/><category term='brand'/><category term='ADD / ADHD'/><title type='text'>Comments on The Human Condition: OCD and ADD/ADHD Are Not Character Flaws</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/feeds/3752232077259234371/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html'/><author><name>Nila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14971543915593992098</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Sdlcke0xMgs/SV1IFgXR4wI/AAAAAAAAAEU/MAAfpToEOpc/S220/Nila-contrast.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-5007726899136206995</id><published>2010-03-06T12:10:29.872-05:00</published><updated>2010-03-06T12:10:29.872-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi, I just happened upon your article on the inter...</title><content type='html'>Hi, I just happened upon your article on the internet, and I have to say it totally captured some of my sentiments about this issue.  I have had OCD for most of my life and when the term is thrown around as some sort of cutesy indiosyncracy, it&amp;#39;s a little insulting. Unfortunately, popular culture focuses on the OCD stereotype of washing hands, checking locks, etc. which for many people is only a small part or not a part at all of their symptoms. Thanks for putting words to something I have thought, and I&amp;#39;m sure many people with OCD have felt, for a long time.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/5007726899136206995'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/5007726899136206995'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html?showComment=1267895429872#c5007726899136206995' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3752232077259234371' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/posts/default/3752232077259234371' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1174749277'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3569145189784559525</id><published>2009-12-11T12:03:07.545-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-11T12:03:07.545-05:00</updated><title type='text'>According to &amp;quot;Driven to Distraction&amp;quot; by ...</title><content type='html'>According to &amp;quot;Driven to Distraction&amp;quot; by Edward M Hallowell, M.D. and John J Ratey, M.D. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;ADHD is Characterized by:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# Most common symptoms is a sense of underachieving.  No matter how well you are doing, always have a sense of missing a lot in work, school, jobs relationships.  That’s what finally brings people in for dx and treatment.&lt;br /&gt;# Difficulty getting organized.  Tend to pile up stuff or stack….big piles&lt;br /&gt;# Procrastination and a frenzy of action at deadline.  Two times:  NOW and NO NOW.  The capacity to anticipate not present.  Need external structure.&lt;br /&gt;# There is a tendency to have many projects—love the novelty, but lack follow-through.&lt;br /&gt;# Tendency to say whatever comes to mind.  Genetically related to ADD is Tourette’s symdrome.&lt;br /&gt;# Tendency to search for high stimulation in order to feel focused.  The high stimulus produces endorphins. People with ADD tend to worry a lot and create worry in order to provide a stimulus.&lt;br /&gt;# Intolerant of boredom.&lt;br /&gt;# Easily distracted-hypervigilent and hyperreceptive.  Mind goes wherever  and enchantment takes it. That occurs to all of us, but for ADD people is frequent and in all setting.  BUS STORY&lt;br /&gt;# Tend to be mavericks—don’t follow instructions.&lt;br /&gt;# Tend to be creative, highly intelligent.  Treatment should aim to find special talents.&lt;br /&gt;# Impatient—move it along; keep changing.&lt;br /&gt;# Sense of insecurity and mood swings…labile because they do not have mood controls.&lt;br /&gt;# Restlessness-drumming fingers, tapping feet, twirling hair. This is emotion in search of a cause.&lt;br /&gt;# Poor tolerance of frustration.  Not knowing and can’t do it.  ADD people heat up quickly; need to contain it.&lt;br /&gt;# Have problems with self esteem&lt;br /&gt;# Inaccurate self observation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;from http://faculty.ashrosary.org/faculty/counseling/ADHDNotes.htm&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the way, I personally make light of my diagnosed and medicated disorder for fear of looking like an idiot.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/3569145189784559525'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/3569145189784559525'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html?showComment=1260550987545#c3569145189784559525' title=''/><author><name>rogue reporter</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18385625063191046359</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='21' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_vQDDBTx90EQ/SStxlR7ePtI/AAAAAAAAADo/c6I2YpiFf5c/S220/Dsc_0012.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3752232077259234371' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/posts/default/3752232077259234371' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1933216497'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3513375025797760029</id><published>2009-01-25T19:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-25T19:45:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Mike and Paula, I really appreciate your comments....</title><content type='html'>Mike and Paula, I really appreciate your comments. Thanks Paula, for being a fan of my son's.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/3513375025797760029'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/3513375025797760029'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html?showComment=1232930700000#c3513375025797760029' title=''/><author><name>Nila</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14971543915593992098</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Sdlcke0xMgs/SV1IFgXR4wI/AAAAAAAAAEU/MAAfpToEOpc/S220/Nila-contrast.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3752232077259234371' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/posts/default/3752232077259234371' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1781947527'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-7561922356563114368</id><published>2009-01-24T17:06:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-24T17:06:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>You forgot one adjective to describe your son (who...</title><content type='html'>You forgot one adjective to describe your son (whom I have the good fortune to know.)  I call him gorgeous - inside and out...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/7561922356563114368'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/7561922356563114368'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html?showComment=1232834760000#c7561922356563114368' title=''/><author><name>Paula</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3752232077259234371' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/posts/default/3752232077259234371' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1636238555'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-4102204027099136476</id><published>2009-01-14T12:19:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-14T12:19:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>excellent perspective.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;i'm glad he's coping...</title><content type='html'>excellent perspective.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;i'm glad he's coping well.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/4102204027099136476'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/3752232077259234371/comments/default/4102204027099136476'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html?showComment=1231953540000#c4102204027099136476' title=''/><author><name>Mike</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.nilanealy.com/2009/01/ocd-and-addadhd-are-not-character-flaws.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35402275.post-3752232077259234371' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35402275/posts/default/3752232077259234371' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1788050074'/></entry></feed>
